Got it, I'm correcting myself

Since I am completely green in tarot, I use cards only in upright position. I read in Banzhaf's book that this is quite acceptable.

Kakarta means hesitant change, fear of plunging into something new, moving into something new with fear. Perhaps the man is thinking about a more serious relationship, but is afraid of the consequences of such a decision.

2. Ace of Cups

The card means a chance to find spiritual happiness, well-being, new love and relationships that bring great happiness and reconciliation.

I assume that the man thinks that if he still dares to have a relationship, he will find happiness and well-being in it.

The card means confidence in the future, new hopes, love under a lucky star, the beginning of a new promising relationship.

It is somewhat difficult for me to interpret this card as human behavior, but since its meanings are positive, then nothing bad man will not do, maybe something related to romance...

4.5 Queen of Wands and 10 of Cups

The Queen of Wands is a figured card and means a temperamental, proud, self-confident woman.

10 of Cups - joy, sociability, harmony, deep love, family happiness.

The Queen of Wands has me stumped. I assume that a man would like to start a family with me, but there is another woman who is preventing this.

6.7 Page of Cups and Hierophant

Page of Cups - emotional support, peace, declaration of love, spiritual intimacy

hierophant - finding meaning, confidence, sincerity, mutual trust, goodwill, ability to respect and appreciate.

I try to create a comfortable atmosphere in our communication, full of all of the above))

8. 2 cups

The card means overcoming splits and conflicts, reconciliation, “binding” oneself with a person.

I assume that the man would like to improve the relationship after a quarrel, which really happened, and is ready to take some steps towards reconciliation.

9. queen of swords

A figured card means smart independent woman. Just like the previous figure, I can’t understand how to interpret it.

As far as I could understand, the man is more serious relationship, but is afraid

Of course, Hayo Banzhaf is a world-famous tarot reader, but personally, I still would not simplify the Tarot cards so much as not to pay attention to the position of the Tarot cards in the layout. Tarot cards in an upright position have their own meanings, and reversed cards have their own. Yes, there are some Tarot card layouts where it doesn’t matter in what position the cards fall. For example, the well-known and beautiful Tarot card layout “The Path” (by Hayo Banzhaf). But always, when using such layouts separately and initially, it is stipulated that the position of the drawn Tarot cards (upright or inverted) does not matter in this particular layout. In the scenario given in this topic, “How does he treat me?” There is no such clause! Therefore, it is imperative that all cards be interpreted taking into account their upright or inverted position. This is very important and simplifications are unacceptable here!

Continuing the topic of relationships between a man and a woman, today we will talk about how to find out that the man you like does not need you. After all, every lady, from time to time faced with non-standard and unpleasant behavior of a man, asks herself the question: “How does he really treat me?” We all want to know for sure whether the newly created relationship has a chance for some kind of development. Or is it not there, and you shouldn’t waste time trying to continue it?

How can you tell if a man really likes you?

Today we will look at the most obvious signs of men’s frivolous attitude towards girls, which will help you understand whether you should hope for something good from the man you like. We will also try to answer the question of how to determine whether a man really likes you, or whether he sees you only as a temporary lover.

He only comes to you in a bad mood

So, one of the signs that a man is not interested in you and does not need you is meeting you only when he is in bad mood. If he comes to you every time he has problems at work, or when another lady rejects him, it’s time to sound the alarm. Most likely, you will not become the wife or permanent girlfriend of this person, but will forever remain in the role of a mistress and a part-time vest for tears.

And all because the man will subconsciously associate you with failure, with depressive state, with a difficult situation. Every time he sees you, he will become depressed and feel like a failure. And no man can like this.

Therefore, you should not allow this kind of attitude from a man towards you - it will not bring much benefit to either you or him. If your loved one prefers to share with you exclusively bad news and mood, preferring to share the happy moments of life with other people, it is better to end such relationships.

Otherwise, one fine day you will realize that he, coming to you exclusively in those moments when he feels bad, literally vampirizes your energy, and shares joy, love, good mood and gifts with another woman, who, most likely, will become his wife.

He blames you for everything

It’s also worth thinking about whether a man needs you if in all your problems and difficult situations He already blames you at the initial stage of the relationship.

For example, he says that he didn’t come on a date because you spoke to him “in the wrong tone” on the phone, by which he realized that he “doesn’t need you.” Although you know that you did not allow yourself to be rude, rude, or indifferent. Or he suddenly gets up and leaves the date without saying goodbye, and then explains it by saying that you were “flirting with another man,” although there was no trace of such behavior on your part.

This is another way to free yourself from responsibility for relationships. Often men don’t want to say directly that he’s not interested in a girl, and they prefer to “nullify the relationship” like this in an unpleasant way. And since they don’t want to lose face, they try to blame the girl for all mortal sins.

I don't think any of you really want someone who will never admit he was wrong or apologize for his misbehavior. And if you value your nerves, it’s better to break up with such a man. After all, most likely, such a rubber band will last a very long time: he will leave when he needs to, explaining that you are to blame, and then appear when it is convenient for him, saying that he “decided to give you another chance.”

You shouldn't let anyone play on your self-esteem. And if your relationship with such a person does not work out, that’s still good, because if you do start dating, he will find fault even more.

If a man refuses to acknowledge the relationship

Another sign that a man does not want to start a serious relationship with you is his offer to “take your time” and “just spend time together” for an indefinite period.

Again, I remind you that if you have just met a man, you should not immediately expect a marriage proposal from him, because you do not know each other yet, and you should not kill the romance of the period of acquaintance - you yourself will regret it later and look for her on the side.

But if you already, so to speak, regularly make love to him, he comes into your house, eats the food you prepare, gladly accepts your help in washing and ironing his things, but at the same time says that “he doesn’t want to rush into a relationship " - This a clear sign that in the future he will not need these same relationships. Most likely, he just sits comfortably on your neck, but at the same time does not want to bind himself to any obligations.

Why doesn't he want a serious relationship?

I’ll tell you something unpleasant: if a man doesn’t want a more “serious relationship” with you, most likely it’s you who allowed this to happen. How? For example, wanting to show off the best side, immediately agreed to all his conditions, or even provided them themselves: they began to cook and wash for him, let him into their house at any time of the day or night, but did not put forward any counter conditions. Although it would be best to slow down with such concern, at least at the first stage.

It is not always worthwhile to perceive a new acquaintance as your husband and treat him accordingly until there is a ring on your finger - simply because men, having a different psychology, do not perceive a woman as a wife until they marry her.

If a woman immediately begins to behave like a wife, although the man did not even think of taking responsibility for her as his own legal spouse, he thinks that such behavior is quite normal for her, even if she is in “ open relationship" A woman believes that if she does everything for a man and does not demand anything in return, he will one day understand what a “treasure” is next to him and will immediately marry.

But, most likely, this will not happen, and your relationship will not develop at all. Men usually think like this: “If the mechanism already works, why improve it?”

Accordingly, if a girl does everything for him without obligations on his part, why would he transfer the relationship to a more “official” status? So slow down with care in the beginning. And if you’re already completely screwed, then most likely you’ll have to end the relationship. Otherwise, they will continue for a long time in the same spirit without any changes.

Why does a man play the “bad guy”

A sign that a man is not serious will also be his constant warnings to you that he is “bad”.

The options for “badness” can be very different, but in any case, he seems to warn you in advance that you may have problems with him. For example, a man says that he is “too polygamous and cannot help but cheat,” that he is “poor and cannot even afford to buy you coffee,” that he is “rude and uncouth and allows himself to constantly be rude to anyone,” and so on.

At first it may seem that the man is simply honest and an open person. But such behavior can also turn out to be a special technique, consciously used in order to relieve oneself in advance of any responsibility for the relationship. Moreover, such words are often spoken at the moment when the man already feels that the woman likes him and she wants a relationship with him.

Why are such “sincere” confessions scary? The fact that a person, having “prescribed an indulgence” in advance, will then calmly behave inappropriately with you.

If he said that he cannot help but cheat, be sure that he will definitely start going “to the left.” If he warned you that he is constantly rude, know that sooner or later he will begin to be rude to you.

When you get offended by him, get upset and try to “sort things out,” he will simply say: “But I warned you!” And in this case, you won’t even be able to answer him anything, because you will understand: I really warned you!

And you yourself agreed to tolerate his bad behavior. So if you hear from the man you are going on a date with words like “you are so good, but I am a malicious cheater, why do you need me?” - be alert. Think carefully, do you need problems in the future?

If a man does not want to change for the better for the sake of a girl, if he does not even try to show himself on the good side, it means that he did not really like the girl, and in fact does not need her.

A man comes to you drunk

And finally, another unpleasant sign that a man does not need you: you see him only when he is in a state of alcohol intoxication. For example, he always comes to you already “drunk”, or gets drunk during the date. This behavior is a sign of disrespect for a woman. And if a woman tolerates this, it means she doesn’t respect herself.

You may have heard a typical male joke about women who are not particularly attractive to them: “They’ll be drawn to vodka.” That is, imagine, even in the rank of mistresses with whom a man meets from time to time, you are at last place, because he can only communicate with you under the influence of alcohol!

Therefore, run away from a drinking man as fast as you can. And be sure to pay attention to yourself, my beloved: try to answer the question, why did you attract such an unpleasant and humiliating situation into your life? Maybe you've let yourself go? Or do you just want to get married so badly that you are ready to throw yourself on the neck of the first alcoholic you meet?

How to start liking your man?

To attract a truly serious and worthy man into your life and to truly please him, try to change for the better: review your wardrobe, change your image, go to training to increase your self-esteem, study special literature. And also do not forget to visit our self-development portal: here you will definitely find a lot interesting articles, including the psychology of relationships.

And then you will no longer have to ask on the Internet whether your man likes you, how he feels about you, etc. After all, having in the “arsenal” necessary information, you will quickly learn to understand whether your relationship has a future, and you will even be able to give useful tips friends in their life situations.

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• Major Arcana Tarot - 22 cards
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The minor or “minor” arcana of the tarot are divided into 4 suits, or “suites”:

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When fortune telling with tarot cards, both upright and inverted positions of the cards are taken into account.

There are several assumptions and hypotheses that explain the appearance of tarot. The author of the most beautiful hypothesis about the appearance of tarot cards is P. Christian. In his "History of Magic" he explains the appearance of the tarot as follows. "According to legend, in Ancient Egypt there was a temple in which mysteries of occult initiation were held. The initiate found himself in a long gallery supported by caryatids in the form of twenty-four sphinxes - twelve on each side. On the wall, in the spaces between the sphinxes, there were frescoes depicting mystical figures and symbols. These twenty-two paintings were arranged in pairs, opposite each other. Walking past the twenty-two paintings of the gallery, the initiate received instruction from the priest. Each Arcana, which became visible and tangible through the painting, represents the formula of the law. human activity in relation to the spiritual and material forces, the combination of which produces all the phenomena of life."

According to another hypothesis about the appearance of the tarot, the ancient Jewish Kabbalistic roots can be traced in the tarot much more clearly, and skeptically oriented tarot adherents propose to consider the starting point in the history of the tarot to be 300 AD - the approximate date of the creation of "Sepher Yetzirah", a fundamental work on Kabbalah, which details the astrological symbol change the Hebrew alphabet, which formed the basis of the tarot.

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Let's take a closer look at the tarot cards themselves. Is there even a hint of the Templar heresy in the tarot pictures? It turns out there is.

1. Despite the fact that tarot cards are a product of the Christian era, there is no image of Christ in the symbolism of the tarot, and the Templars were declared heretics precisely because they did not recognize His divinity.
2. In tarot cards there is another image mentioned in the Templar manuscripts - the image of the Hanged Man (XII Major Arcana of the Tarot): “The Cross of Christ should not serve as an object of worship, since no one will worship the gallows on which his father, relative or friend was hanged.”
3. The Templars were accused of worshiping the idol of Baphomet (Satan), and there is such an image in tarot cards - the XV Major Arcana of the Tarot.

So, we can suggest that tarot cards are nothing more than pages of the secret doctrine of the Templar Order. But this hypothesis of the appearance of tarot is as dubious as the others.

In light of all of the above, is it worth to a normal person resort to the help of tarot? Definitely worth it! After all, tarot cards, if we ignore their past, are an excellent tool for self-knowledge. Fortune telling with the tarot (and not only with the tarot) is nothing more than reflection with an element of self-programming, which can be quite positive if you approach this process without fear and bias. With the help of tarot, you can think through in advance, “rehearse” any situation, and reduce the percentage of failures in life.