Personal life of Dmitry Maryanov. Why did Maryanov contact his ex-wife before the tragedy? Details are known Director Alla Surikova remembers the actor

Tatyana, you live outside the city. Many people know about your amazing, large and hospitable house. But life outside the city doesn’t bring any difficulties? How is your day structured?
- I now have three schoolchildren, so the schedule depends very much on them. Without a city apartment, of course, it became difficult. After all, children are growing up, and they still have a lot to do besides school. It happens that our whole family arrives in the city at eight in the morning and leaves at nine in the evening.
- In some sense, is your life subordinated to the routine of your children?
- (Smiles.) Not in any way, but absolutely straight. It's not their fault that we live so far away.
- What kind of mother are you? How do you raise children?
- Love and trust. (Smiles.) True, when another child begins adolescence, it seems to me every time that I don’t know anything about education. Of course, we try to explain in any quarrels between children that this is their brother or sister, in childhood everyone quarrels, then you will be the closest people to each other. The younger ones, for five whole minutes after a quarrel, swear that this is completely impossible in their case!.. Well, the main principle, which I consider basic and, perhaps, even sufficient, is Camus’s statement: “The freedom of one ends where the freedom of another begins.”
- How was your childhood? Tell us about your parents.
- With pleasure. My dad was an engineer. Many thanks to him, he was a born teacher. Thanks to him, I am well versed in all technical disciplines. And she easily passed the notorious strength of materials test while studying at one of her many institutes. Dad could tell you about everyone quite simply, literally on his fingers. physical processes happening in the world. My mother is a very creative person. How she got into medicine is a big mystery to me! At one time, apparently, she simply had nowhere to turn around. But she more than makes up for it at home events. (Laughs.) Because our family holidays are so fun! Recently we celebrated my grandmother’s ninety-year anniversary. It was such a wonderful holiday, an amazing home concert. Everyone was so passionate about it that my aunt was even a little upset as a joke - the guests didn’t eat anything, everyone was passionate about the show. Mom loves to stage theatrical performances and performs in many roles herself. She now lives in Irkutsk. Previously, my parents and I lived in the Far North, in Yakutia. One of the most vivid childhood memories is how we went to pick snowdrops in the spring with our parents. I also remember puppet theater performances that we often staged at home.
- Tatyana, how did they let you, my beloved daughter, go to Moscow to enter a theater university? After all, many parents have a certain stereotype about this profession.
- (Smiles.) You could say I was pushed out! Although for some reason my dad thought that I would enter the biology department in Irkutsk. Why? It remains a mystery to me. And he was very surprised when he found out that my mother and I had already bought tickets to Moscow and that I was flying to the theater exams. Mom, apparently, was taking revenge for her non-theatrical career. WITH prom I returned at six in the morning, and at eight we already flew to Moscow. They arrived at four in the morning, and at eight they were already at the Shchepkinsky school.
- The release of the first film with your participation was certainly a very significant event for your parents.
- Yes. But it so happened that they visited me on the set, my dad often flew on business trips, and my mother flew in, they came to the filming with pleasure. film set.
- Tatiana, are you probably tired of the journalists’ questions and the topic of your acting past in general?
- Yes, to be honest, it’s nice to remember this only sometimes. So as not to forget. I live for today, in another present. Friends of the actors remain, we communicate with pleasure. Edik Radzyukevich, Sasha Zhigalkin, Dima Maryanov. We correspond with Maria Poroshina, but we still don’t match in Moscow.
- And in Irkutsk you found for yourself interesting activity. We were a TV presenter and starred in commercials. We started teaching etiquette courses.
- I haven’t taught yet, because the group is not recruited. But as soon as I do, I’m ready to start this work right away. Representatives of one training center, who organizes and conducts various courses, asked if I would like to try. I found it very interesting, although I don't officially own it. But the direction is interesting, due to the general illiteracy of the population. Not in the literal sense of the word, of course.
- Then about the level of our culture. For example, you are walking down the street, you see people, their communication, dialogues. Are there any moments you don't like that are downright creepy?
- In general, everything is changing, of course, for the better. Ten years ago, when I first came to Irkutsk, when Andrey brought me here and said: “Let’s live here,” I was a little confused. We arrived, I went for a walk around the city, went to several places, looked, came back all in tears and said: “I can’t live here.” What shocked me first of all was the rudeness. Moreover, Andrei asked me to directly tell in detail what, for example, they told me in the store and how I responded. After listening, he laughed for a long time and said: “Nobody was rude to you, that’s just how they talk here.” I didn’t believe it: “And the tone in which it was said?..” Then I realized that this was really just a local manner, such an intonation in the voice, as if they were attacking you. I don’t know why, maybe because of difficult living conditions. And Andrei told me: people here are very kind, just a little rude. I also don’t like the general reluctance to restrain oneself. The other day, in one courtyard on a children's playground, I watched a picture of a young mother scolding children riding on a carousel. It’s not written anywhere on the playgrounds that children, say, over eleven or twelve years old are prohibited from playing there. And here is this woman with her own small child in the most unrestrained, rude form, she began to make comments to these big children: “What are you doing here? You don’t belong here.” A question arose inside me: who said they didn’t belong here? If they follow the rules of politeness and behave carefully, why don’t they have a place on the playground? These are little things, of course, but I notice such moments, and I think that in this direction there is simply unplowed ground.
- And when you left the capital after your husband, what did he promise you?
- He didn’t promise me anything. We actually once told each other: never say “never” or “forever.” Because we are living people, time flows around us, and everything changes. We decided that we will be together as long as we feel good together, that’s all. Andrey simply became sad after a while in Moscow. Everything was great with him there, he’s open, good man, combined with the fact that he is also a professional in his field. And this just has a wonderful effect on people. Anyone who works with him once can no longer refuse him. Everything would have worked out well for him in the future in terms of work in Moscow, but he just felt sad. He kept saying that he wanted to come here, both fishing and hunting. And at that moment I was faced with a choice: either I stay in Moscow without Andrey, or I go to Siberia with him.
- Your choice probably shocked your colleagues and acquaintances.
- Everyone is still surprised. After all, objectively this decision cannot be called smart. Because Irkutsk is a place where for a long time people were exiled; the climate here is difficult to live in. But nevertheless, love and personal happiness came first for me. After an already established career, it seemed to me that I could afford to follow my feelings.
- Your husband is in demand in his profession and in Irkutsk. The premiere of “Satisfaction”, a film by Anna Matison, will soon take place, in the filming of which you and Andrey also participated.
- Yes, Andrey was involved as a cameraman, and I was a line producer. By the way, this film was included in the program of the last Kinotavr.
- Tatyana, what can you say about Russian cinema in general? Do you like it?
- From what I watched recently, I really liked the film “Wild Field” by Mikheil Kalatozishvili. We can’t compete with Hollywood in producing blockbusters, but we can do without it and make our own movies differently. And this “different” thing in “Wild Field” touched my soul so much... I advise you to watch it. The film, as Andrey said, is a cameraman’s dream, the shots are so slow and long. Beautiful landscapes, mountains. Somewhere it even echoes my northern childhood. And a bunch of wonderful acting, lively and unexpected scenes.
- Is it possible to watch movies now just as a spectator, and not as a professional? Or always through the eyes of the actress?
- All my life, I always watch movies as a simple spectator. If I really liked the film, I can watch it a second time or even a third time, and then yes, I will watch with interest and note some points for myself. And for the first time I watch it as a spectator and nothing else - I cry, I laugh. (Smiles.) By the way, I cry where I’m supposed to and where I’m not supposed to.
- What are your plans for the summer?
- This summer will be so “unresting.” (Smiles.) There are work plans. We have our own premises in which we want to open something. But for this, a lot still needs to be done. It’s too early to talk about details, but this is a creative project related to children. I hope it will find a response in the hearts of people. Trips and travel are postponed for now, because business comes first. By September we should already have launched something, brought it into the right type. And so I’ll rest at home, in our country it works out very well.
- Your intra-family project is “Family Motor Rally”, a journey through the cities of Russia through Kazakhstan, with a bunch of children. When will you repeat and again set an example for families with children on how to relax?
- In general, this event is difficult organizationally and financially too. But my family and I would, of course, like to do something in this spirit. Then we traveled fifteen thousand kilometers. The start was in Irkutsk, further along the route were Kazakhstan, Volgograd. We planned to go to Crimea, but after Kazakhstan we didn’t want to go there; various border measures stopped us. And we stayed near Gelendzhik, parked the car three meters from the sea, parked a scarf and rested. Afterwards we went to Moscow, but my friend from Minsk called, and we decided to visit her. Then it turned out that they forgot their things in Gelendzhik, called the guys with whom they were vacationing there, and went to pick up their things in Smolensk. From there to Moscow. The plans were to visit St. Petersburg with a museum program to introduce children to cultural heritage. (Laughs.) But the children begged for mercy. Everyone is really tired. We lived in Moscow for another week and went home. We made a film about our journey; we had a video camera on almost the entire time. In general, now we need to start with St. Petersburg.
- What can you say about the roads?
- The roads are bad, but I think something has changed in four years, perhaps they have become better. The roads in Belarus are simply gorgeous. And it’s difficult to say when we will have good roads. After all, for this you need large number cash in the budget. And so that they don't steal. But I am an optimist and still believe that this is possible.
- Money and in general material assets What place do they occupy in your life?
- I never thought about money, because somehow it was always there - not a lot and not a little, but just right, so as not to require close attention. Now, of course, we have to think about them, because the children have already grown up, but have not yet grown up. When I was a child, my dad earned enough money in my family, and we could afford everything, within reason. Mom could very rarely say no. When I was a student and lived in Moscow, I also never felt an acute shortage of money. There was a scholarship, my parents sent me a little. I went to thrift stores, spent a long time looking for something special - and as a result, I looked just right. The worst period of my life in terms of image came at a time when I was fabulously, obscenely rich. Now, when I look back at photographs from those years, I understand this. I just went to the boutique that opened at that time on Kievskaya and bought the first suit I came across for crazy money. I think: “Why should I suffer, go looking, invent?” The things in my wardrobe were very expensive. (Smiles.) But now I look at the photo and understand that there was not much taste in that period.
- A moment of self-criticism - is it acceptable for you?
- Absolutely necessary! I have to draw conclusions from my mistakes so as not to make them again.
- Tatyana, what would you say are your interests and hobbies? Some people collect stamps, others enjoy dancing. Is there something like that in your life?
- My hobby is not original: I play the piano. Once I graduated from music school, then for fifteen years, if not more, I did not approach the instrument. And then I suddenly wanted to play so much, I suddenly realized what an outlet it was for me. Now I’m learning Chopin’s nocturne - it’s very, very difficult, you can break your fingers. People rest differently. (Smiles.) Well, it’s not like watching TV, after all! I have three TVs in my house, and I spend most of my time at home turning them off.
- Why is there such a dislike for TV?
- What's good about it? It seems to me that television throws out a lot of evil and bad things. During pregnancy, for example, I couldn’t watch the news at all. She forbade bringing newspapers home. Not all, of course. There is a list that is possible. When I light the fireplace, I take a newspaper, and even if I accidentally come across some bad news, then I walk around sick for several days. I mean news that concerns some incidents, terrible cases involving children, and so on and so forth. And that’s why I don’t watch TV. You know, once upon a time a journalist I knew, an American, said about his compatriots: “I can’t stand them!” I was so surprised and asked: why? He answered me: because they are all lazy, uninterested in anything, nothing is important to them except what is happening on their street. I supported him then. Really, how can you be so limited? And now I understand them, because if you want to help someone, you have the strength, the spiritual impulse - look around, and you will find someone who needs your help. And when you learn about someone’s grief on TV or in the newspaper, as a rule, you cannot help. When I see grief happening somewhere in the world and I cannot help, I really suffer from it. Maybe I express it in an exaggerated way.
- What about the Internet?
- He is somehow kinder to people. Of course, there are floating windows, but you can deal with them. But in general, on the Internet you choose what you watch and read.
- Do household chores take up a lot of your time?
- Housekeeping, by the standards of a private house, is kept to a minimum. Of course, this is mainly cleaning. There are many children in the house, they help, some are assigned the first floor, others the second.
- What about the garden?
“I don’t force anyone to do anything there.” Because it's disgusting when you are forced. If children want raspberries or sorrel, they themselves ask in the spring: “Where will our sorrel grow?” I say: “If you dig up this bed, there will be sorrel.” They'll dig it up. Or they ask: what’s with the peas? I say: it is overgrown with grass. They'll go weed...
- Flowers?
- Not very much. (Smiles.) We have horses, and they have already eaten the flowers many times. The fact is that our plot is quite large, and in order to have a beautiful, spotless lawn, I let them out, and they carefully eat up all the excess grass. I don't like a lawnmower, we have one, but I can't when it smells like gasoline. And when the horses come out, I cover a few flowers with a blanket so that they don’t eat them. And the rest on the site are trees, pines, cedars, and various shrubs.
- What is the secret of your popularity among journalists and the public? You haven’t acted for a long time, but you still appear from time to time on TV and on the pages of magazines and newspapers.
- (Laughs.) For me, this is a big mystery. Sometimes I wonder what it is that I spread around myself. I was thinking about this recently. Each person has his own mission on earth. It may be such a big word, but I’m not ashamed of it. Someone has a mission to become president and work for the good of their country. For some, the mission is to build a beautiful shopping and entertainment center. Someone needs to save people or be a doctor. When I thought about my mission, I realized that it was definitely not filming a dozen films. Yes, it was good, interesting, but you can’t call it a mission. Who did these films change, someone's fate? Maybe I was just unlucky and didn’t have such films in my career. But after our trip “Family Motor Rally”, for two years people came up to me on the street and asked: are you the same people? And they said: “Thank you! We decided to have another child. We were so afraid, it seemed to us that this was impossible and we couldn’t cope. But we saw how easily you cope.” And there were not even five or ten such people, but much more. (Smiles.) You could say I improved the birth rate and showed people how happy you become when you have big family.