How old is the adopted son of Evdokia Germanova. Broadcast of the official blog of Maria Arbatova in Hydepark

Nikolai Erokhin, who was adopted and then abandoned by Evdokia Germanova, spoke about his life.

Former adopted son Nikolai Erokhin turned 18 years old. He became the hero of the show “Let Them Talk.”

Nikolai is studying in college and plans to become a chef-technologist. In the studio of the “Let Them Talk” program he spoke about his life.

Three years ago, the adopted son of Evdokia Germanova first shared his memories of how the actress adopted him and seven years later returned him to the orphanage. The artist refused him, accusing the boy of schizophrenia. She sent her son to school when he was five and was unhappy with his performance. The child spent a year in a psychiatric hospital.

As it turned out, throughout the entire treatment, only his uncle, the actress’s brother Alexei Germanov, visited him. The man took custody of the child in order to take him away on weekends or holidays.

“He stayed mainly with a nanny, then in a nursery, a fashionable garden, where he was kept and raised. He had good manners. Suddenly, at some point, he ended up in child psychiatry, I rushed there, because if a person finds himself in such a situation, we need to help him. The psychiatrist said that the boy was diagnosed behavioral characteristics- attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. I went all the time, then I was forbidden to visit him, but they allowed me to bring parcels so that he would know - in open world he is remembered and his fate is not indifferent. The head doctor said that Kolya’s father was Evdokia, I can now visit him,” said Alexey Germanov.

Nikolai reported an interesting detail - after his adoption, the actress received housing. The state provided the artist and her child with a two-room apartment. However, after Evdokia returned the boy, representatives orphanage abandoned the property on behalf of Kolya.

“We got this two-room apartment as different sexes, because I am a boy and she is a woman,” Erokhin said.

The lawyer who was in the studio said that according to the law, after leaving the orphanage, Nikolai is obliged to get his own housing. Moreover, Themis’ servant was surprised why he did not receive alimony from his former adoptive parent.

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Nikolai’s beloved Victoria appeared in the studio. As it turned out, the girl will soon become a mother. Nikolai's chosen one hopes that she will marry him.

“We’ve been together for about two years, we met in orphanage. Now we live together, there will be a child, a wedding at the end of the year, I hope,” Victoria said.

Ex appeared in the studio common-law husband Evdokia Sergey. He was surprised by the pregnancy of Nikolai’s chosen one. He thought Victoria had an abortion. Erokhin admitted that the man convinced him to get rid of his unborn child.

“They just left the orphanage, work is not going well, he is now unemployed. I have a small salary, I help as much as I can, I always give some money. I can't take it for maintenance. Why am I against the birth of a child - they themselves did not get on their feet,” admitted Evdokia’s former chosen one.

Nikolai did not hide the fact that he had to borrow money. According to him, he does not receive a scholarship because he has not yet been expelled from the orphanage. Now he lives in the apartment of his chosen one. Evdokia’s former common-law husband said that he decided to help the boy when the actress abandoned him.

Evdokia herself said in early interviews that she gave the child a lot of love. She does not justify herself and is not ashamed of her actions.

“I have to answer for what I did. My conscience allows me to be happy and inspire others to heroic deeds, so that people are not afraid of anything in this life,” said Evdokia. - This is the part of life for which I am not ashamed. Kolka knows how much love there was, he knows and will not forget.”

Erokhin does not deny that his adoptive mother loved him, although only in his preschool years. After he entered first grade at age five, she did not like his behavior.

Evdokia’s friend Nikolai Sakharov appeared in the studio. He could not understand why the young man came to the program and brought a girl. He said that the boy stole things and money from the theater, although the guy denies this. Dmitry Borisov admitted that he did not expect such accusations from a teenager from an adult man.

Nikolai decided to meet with his former foster mother ten years later. He came to the apartment where he once lived.

- Do you recognize him?

- No. Who are you? Oh, you're from the show. You guys are completely crazy. Sorry, I don’t know,” the actress answered and closed the door.

However, the young man did not stop there and called Evdokia to awaken at least some feelings in her.

“You understand, you’re not doing it very right. You stirred this up and are poking around in this, which I don’t want to have anything to do with,” - this is how Germanova ended the conversation.

However, experts in the studio accused Nikolai of not thanking fate for his help. wonderful people- brother of Evdokia and his former common-law spouse. Nevertheless, Nikolai wants to get answers to his questions from his mother.

“At least just an explanation why she did this to me. I don't demand anything. They are not interested in an apartment or money,” Erokhin concluded.

Ten years later, Nikolai came to the apartment where he once lived. However, the artist did not recognize her adopted son, slamming the door in his face. But Erokhin did not stop there and called Evdokia to awaken at least some feelings in her. “Do you understand that you’re not doing the right thing? You’ve stirred this up and are poking around in something that I don’t want to have anything to do with,” she replied ex-son Germanova.

ON THE TOPIC

It became known on the program that Nikolai is in dire need of money and cannot find housing. After abandoning the child, the celebrity left herself a two-room apartment, which she received from the state.

Note that three years ago, the actress’s adopted son first shared his memories of how the star adopted him and seven years later returned him to the orphanage. The artist refused him, accusing the child of schizophrenia. The boy spent a year in a psychiatric hospital.

As it turned out, throughout the entire treatment, only his uncle, the celebrity’s brother Alexei Germanov, visited him. The man took custody of the child in order to take him away on weekends or holidays. Now the young man is studying in college and is going to become a chef-technologist.

Nikolay also reported important nuance: After his adoption, the actress received housing. The state provided the artist and her child with a two-room apartment. However, after Evdokia returned her son to the orphanage, representatives of the institution refused the property on behalf of the boy.

In turn, the lawyer who was in the studio stated that after leaving the orphanage, Nikolai has the right to his own housing. The defender was also surprised why Erokhin did not receive alimony from his former adoptive parent.

“Everything was going just fine for me and my adopted son Kolya. We felt absolutely happy... And even in nightmare I couldn’t imagine what happened next,” sighs Evdokia Germanova, the leading actress of “Tabakerka”, who has played more than three dozen roles in films and on television and has recently crossed the half-century mark.

I don’t remember exactly what time it was when I arrived at the orphanage, when I was already allowed to take Kolya for a walk.

I think it's the fifth one. Or sixth? No, I don’t remember exactly. Yes, but what difference does it make... In general, 2000, summer. She arrived, as usual, before the appointed time. I'm sitting, waiting. Finally they bring out “mine” - he’s a little guy in sandals, looking around, probably looking for me. When I saw it, I think I was even happy. But he doesn’t run up. Still, as before, he approaches carefully, as if with caution. I take your hand, I feel - again wary. Well, at least he doesn’t mind. I ask: “Shall we go for a walk?” Nods silently. It seems he even smiled... He summer day was especially good: the sun was gentle, not scorching, there was a light breeze, the greenery was washed after the rain and because of this it was somehow especially bright...

Let's go to the nearest public garden. I say something incessantly - I make up all sorts of unimaginable stories about birds, about a dragonfly, about a sad tree, about a cheerful beetle. And I’m surprised at myself where it just came from! And Kolya listens attentively, occasionally asking questions. That means he got involved in communication. They began to play hide and seek, catch up, blind man's buff. Finally, I see that the boy is exhausted, tired, and no longer reacts to anything. He’s really tiny - only a year and a half old. I take him in my arms, and suddenly... He smiled and pressed his whole body against me. He really pressed me hard. And then I fell asleep. In my arms! I look at this flushed cheek on my shoulder, at this sweet saliva and think: “After all, this trusting embrace contains the main thing - the little man unconditionally surrendered himself to me.”

And for the thousandth time I replayed the whole story of our acquaintance in my head...

HAPPINESS

I'm talking about children for a long time I didn’t think much about it. Firstly, I didn’t want to leave my profession even temporarily, and secondly, the very fact of entering this world of childhood with all its problems frightened me. Obviously, everything could fall into place if I gave birth. But... I didn’t meet the man from whom I was destined to give birth... My first and, perhaps, only love I met in my life on the set of the film “The Hoax.” That period was generally very important in my life, because on those sets there were a lot of things for the first time for me. I smoked for the first time, tried wine for the first time and...

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fell in love for the first time. And very seriously. This love filled me completely and became literally limitless. And its object was a very worthy, but very mature man, and the situation for me was hopeless, because he had a family. But, despite this, I dare to hope that he reciprocated my feelings. Our story lasted for several years, and then I stopped it - I simply forbade myself from prolonging it... Then I had different relationships with men - both light hobbies and serious romances, lived and civil marriage. All these men were worthy people, and I am grateful to Fate for these meetings. But what can I do - in my subconscious I always had that first, all-consuming love, and all other feelings could not be compared with it. Therefore, no matter how wonderful everything turned out, I still always left my lovers - the first.

In order not to give up any hope...

As a result, by the age of forty I was left alone. A terrible depression came over me - I was simply torn apart by the feeling that everything in my life was bad, I was living meaninglessly, there was no future, no one needed me - neither in life nor in my profession. In general, my entire internal territory was engulfed in complete despair and hopelessness... And so in 2000, I and a group of friends went to Turkey for the Millennium. On January 3, I decided to go to the famous ancient Church of St. Nicholas the Wonderworker - just on an excursion, with tourists. I remember going inside, and it was as if something was turning over in my soul. Some amazing, confessional state envelops me - I am filled with previously unknown feelings, thoughts, emotions.

The former adopted son of actress Evdokia Germanova Nikolai Erokhin first gave frank interview. 15-year-old Nikolai in Andrei Malakhov’s program “Let Them Talk” talked about how he lived all these years, betrayed by his adoptive mother, and why he ended up in an orphanage. The actress assured that the boy was schizophrenic. Kolya himself refutes his diagnosis and says that it was more convenient for the actress to refuse it.

This story began in 2001. At 41, the actress took a 1.5-year-old boy, Kolya, from an orphanage. However, after 8 years the child ended up in an orphanage again. He still lives in an orphanage on the outskirts of Moscow. But he got here after spending a year in a children's psychiatric hospital, where Evdokia sent him.

The family idyll lasted about 7 years. When the boy went to school, the actress began to complain that she could not cope with Kolya, citing the fact that he had become aggressive, uncontrollable and had been repeatedly caught stealing. In addition, according to the actress, he began to behave inappropriately at school - he banged his head against the walls if the teachers scolded him. Germanova stated that she then learned that he was her adopted son. drug addicted parents. According to her, Kolya was not given massive doses of psychotropic drugs. And then the actress announced the boy’s diagnosis: schizophrenia with a manic attraction to theft and bladed weapons.

A representative of Evdokia Germanova, who was present in the studio, said that the actress sent the boy to psychiatrists for a reason. The fact is that then Nikolai inflicted grievous bodily harm on a classmate, practically gouging out the child’s eyes with scissors. And then the question arose about sending him to serve either in a children's colony, or for treatment in psychiatric hospital. “And Evdokia turned to me with a request to help so that Nikolai would not be sent to a children’s colony,” noted her representative. Moreover, he talked about something that had not been said before - he emphasized that Evdokia herself was attacked by Nikolai with a knife. The actress kept silent about this incident because she believed that this was partly her fault, that she was raising her incorrectly.

15-year-old Nikolai, in turn, notes that he does not remember the attacks on his classmate and foster mother, and in general stories with piercing objects.

“I believe that I was not difficult. Well, the child got into a fight at school, and he got a bad grade. Well, what's wrong with that? No, well, it’s clear that this is bad, but not as bad. I don't consider her a good mother. I never even remember when I hugged my mother, that is, Evdokia. Yes we had nice apartment, but... there were a lot of toys, everything, but... as they say, he received little affection. Well, you came home, you’re alone, you did your homework, you have nothing to do, you went to bed and that’s it. She left at three and arrived at 12 o'clock in the morning. Even when I came to the theater with her, she minded her own business, I went for a walk,” Nikolai said.

Alexey Alekseevich, the brother of Evdokia Germanova, turned out to be one of those who supported the boy at that difficult moment for him, when the actress abandoned him. Alexey came to Kolya, visited him in the hospital, talked with him. When Germanova abandoned him, Alexey took out partial guardianship over Kolya. The boy spent the whole summer with him, so Alexei had the opportunity to assess whether he had schizophrenia or not. “Now he’s a normal, calm guy, you’ve seen. Of course, at first after the hospital, he was very anxious and nimble. There is such a diagnosis, but it is not psychiatric, but behavioral - attention deficit hyperactivity disorder,” said Alexey.

Nikolai said that he recently lifted his disability by going to the hospital for a month every year. “For these 8 years I could not understand why they abandoned me. As a person cuts off, well, she cut me off from herself, I cut her off from me. And I made this decision consciously. I was offended,” the teenager shared.

Kolya said that his current plans are to train as a cook and start a family by the age of 30. When Andrei Malakhov asked what he would do if Evdokia, having seen the program, wanted to ask him for forgiveness, he answered: “I will forgive. But it’s not I who should forgive, God will forgive... Well, what can I tell her? 9 years have passed. I can’t tell her anything.”

The young man said that he would rather find his eight brothers and sisters than communicate with Germanova again. “I’m better off without her than with her,” Nikolai snapped.

2001 Evdokia Germanova and Kolya in the program “While everyone is at home” // Photo: Channel One

Kolya Erokhin became a father and promises not to abandon his daughter. Honored Artist of Russia Evdokia Germanova is 58.

She plays in the theater and teaches acting to students. She appears in TV series: in the recent “Anna Karenina” on “Russia 1” she played Countess Kartasova.

But TV viewers know Germanova not only for her roles. Many people remember the scandal with her adopted son - the artist abandoned him, declaring him mentally ill.

Adopted out of selfishness

Evdokia Germanova took the child from an orphanage 18 years ago. First, she signed up for foster care, and a year later she adopted her. So the one-year-old boy Kolya became Nikolai Nikolaevich Germanov. The leading actress of “Tabakerka,” for whom Tabakov himself vouched, was given a healthy child.

In an interview, Germanova talked about the reasons for adoption: “There was a certain selfishness and even egocentrism in the decision to take a child from an orphanage, because by and large I saved myself. I did it out of hopelessness, out of despair... I wanted to pass on my spiritual experience to someone, to inspire someone to do something..."

NIKOLAY AND HIS CIVIL WIFE VICTORIA BECAME PARENTS THREE MONTHS AGO. PHOTO: CHANNEL ONE

Germanova gave interviews about her new mission and how lucky she was with her baby: he was smart and smiling. But when Kolya went to school, the actress began to complain to friends that the guy began to show aggression, fight, steal... Evdokia sent the child to a psychiatric hospital, where Kolya was diagnosed with “chronic schizoaffective disorder.” And the actress refused the boy.

“Beat me with a belt and buckle”

The adoption was canceled by the decision of the Lefortovo District Court in 2007, when the child was 9 years old. The details of this story were shared by Maria Arbatova, who knows Germanova and attended a talk show on this topic: “... Of course, we must judge those who gave a child to a lonely, mentally unbalanced, drinking actress. Tabakov got her a beautiful two-room apartment for this child. When Nikolai went to school, problems began, and how could they not start if the boy fell from the frying pan into the fire?

He behaved badly, studied poorly, was aggressive, that is, he turned from a downtrodden, intimidated doll into a complex child with a developing character. Dunya’s teaching talents were such that for any offense she would beat him in the face with a belt with a buckle and lock him in the toilet for a day. And then she began to sing songs that a seven-year-old child had robbed both her and the entire theater and in general she was afraid to be alone with him at night.

All this was played out in the best traditions of “Tabakerka,” and the story was staged with groans and wringing of hands for a bunch of my friends. At the same time, everyone saw a heavily drunk Dunya and a well-communicating child running around the tables in the Central House of Writers restaurant. One fine day, Dunya sent eight-year-old Nikolai to a psychiatric hospital, colorfully explaining that he was a thief, a maniac, a murderer, etc. The child was kept in the psychiatric hospital for a year, because it was not clear what to do with him: his foster mother began to abandon him, and this the process is long. Dunya's brother visited the guy and wanted to take him for himself, but guardianship did not allow him due to his age. As a result, Nikolai was sent to an orphanage with a diagnosis of schizotypal personality disorder... After leaving the orphanage, Nikolai removed the diagnosis.

Young father

The guy is now 19 years old. Nikolai went to college to become a cook, works and has already started a family with a girl from an orphanage. Three months ago their daughter was born. About once every six months Kolya Erokhin appears on a talk show.

NATALIA EROKHINA Abandoned her SON KOLYA IN THE MATERNITY HOSPITAL. PHOTO: CHANNEL ONE

On last week in the program “Actually” Nikolai Erokhin met with his biological mother. Natalya Erokhina abandoned her son in the maternity hospital, since she did not have the means to support three children, and then Kolya was born. The woman does not hide the fact that she has been drinking for many years. A DNA test confirmed that Natalya - biological mother Nicholas. The guy says that so far he only feels hatred towards his mother. “Three months ago I became a father for the first time. I can't imagine leaving my child. Me and mine common-law wife Ksyushas are also not rich, but I will do everything so that my girl does not need anything,” says the young man.

Of course, Nikolai is paid to participate in the talk show. But, in addition, Kolya, with the help of journalists, is trying to restore at least some kind of relationship with Evdokia Germanova, but she does not make contact. The guy persistently proves his own worth: he was able to grow up as a full-fledged person, despite his traumatic childhood experience.