“Family well-being” service. On whom does family well-being depend? What does family well-being mean?

“Good afternoon！ I would like to thank Anatoly Alexandrovich, Sergei, and Natalya for the Sunday consultation. I didn't manage to see everything, because... due to leaving for another city, but after watching the replay and the answer to my question, I felt a lot of emotions, tears, lived once again all the questions asked by the participants and the answers, from which I learned a lot of useful and necessary things for myself. From the bottom of my heart I thank Anatoly Alexandrovich for the words and answers that penetrated to the depths of the Soul and somehow magically remained, that even those situations that happened in my life before, I reacted, showed emotions that were not entirely good, then after the answer, after words, phrases of Anatoly Alexandrovich, you look at everything, react consciously, Wisely, calmly, with Love！You begin to understand and realize a lot！ And this is only the beginning of training and the first consultation!😌☯ Thank you for organizing Sergei and Natalya！ Thank you Anatoly Alexandrovich for the answers !🙏🙏🏻🙏🏻🌈💞🤗"

Julia K.,

“In the process of learning, my life really changes a lot: awareness, honesty, depth, joy, Love in all forms and such changes in life 😃 that I don’t know what discovery awaits tomorrow ❤. I realize that tomorrow my life is even more beautiful and happier than today 😃, only in happiness other facets 😲 and a different life appear... A new interesting stage began at the beginning of this year... Consultation with Anatoly Alexandrovich and training in the "FAMILY" course Well-being" change my life to a happy one filled with Love❤🙏...
...My mom just called and wished me a Happy Daughter’s Day😃😊!!! I didn’t even know there was such a holiday 🤔, but she heard it on the radio. And the most important and unexpected words for me were her words: “We love you very much! We are happy that we have you! You are the most beautiful daughter in the World!” My mother began to say words of love addressed to me not so long ago, but the fact that she considers me a wonderful daughter... has never told me such things...❤ I heard words more often... of a different nature...
...Thank you🙏❤! After a consultation with Anatoly Alexandrovich, and then after starting training on the SB course, everything began to improve dramatically in relationships 😊!!! I'm so Happy!!!"

Julia D.,
student of the course “Family Welfare” 1-2018

The real value in life is family and friends. Congratulations on Family Day and wish you mutual understanding, happiness, bright plans and many interesting activities. May the family always be a strong rock, protection from adversity and consolation in troubles. Love, beauty, a good future, prosperity and joint development!

Today, on International Family Day, I want to wish you health and happiness. Let your family hearth always burn and give warmth. Mutual understanding and support, patience, strength, love and prosperous days.

There is no stronger union on earth than a happy and friendly family. This is the beginning of a new life, and the continuation of a wonderful family, and honoring the holiness of traditions. Family is the highest happiness that a person can create himself. Today, on International Family Day, I would like to wish: may children’s laughter be heard everywhere, and may your family be your faithful support. May you always be warmed by the warmth of love. I wish your family to be prosperous, friendly and united. Prosperity and goodness to all families!

Happy International Family Day! I wish you great family happiness, sincerity, love, tenderness, care and attention. Let the feeling of unity and cordiality always warm you in any weather, at any time of the year. Take care of each other and be happy!

Without exaggeration, we can say: family is the most important thing a person is rich in. Support, rear, support, understanding. Let everyone today remember their family and friends, call, write, congratulate and rejoice at what a treasure they have. Happy International Family Day, dears!

Congratulations to everyone on International Family Day! Family is of great importance to every person. I wish every family a lot of “fuel”, the most important thing - love, warmth, trust, faith, patience, the ability to wait, forgive, create, support. Take care of each other, live in harmony!

Family is our pride, asset and main value in life! May your family be strong, happy, and free from troubles and adversity from today onwards! On this special day, I wish everyone love, a cozy family hearth and blooming prosperity!

Congratulations on the holiday, on the day of which it is customary to glorify family and family values. We wish that your home becomes a place of warmth, prosperity and comfort, that your family is strong and happy, that the connection between generations be unbreakable, that joy never leaves you.

There is nothing more important in this world than the unity of souls. May this holiday remind you of the importance of family ties. May everyone find endless happiness of love, devotion, care and understanding. Let the anxiety of disappointment and loneliness not touch you. Always be a part of the sunny, infinitely bright and warm word “family”. Take care of each other every day and value family and marriage ties. Happy holiday!

It's no secret that family is the most important thing in the world. You need to treat your family and friends with care, give them your love and attention. I wish you excellent trusting relationships, so that you have it like in the movies: “One for all, and all for one!” Congratulations on International Family Day!

Dear children, parents, teachers! Congratulations on the start of a new school year and open the page of family, family values and traditions. Here you can post materials about your family, traditions, holidays, hobbies and parents! We invite you to cooperate.

For interesting notes on the topic of family, see the social network of educators.

For an angel... named MOTHER!

Mom is the child's first teacher and closest friend. She will always understand him, console him, help him in difficult times, protect him, protect him from harm. There is nothing in the world more selfless than her love. There is no person in the world dearer and closer than a mother. Children are the most precious thing to her. A mother's happiness is the happiness of her children.

Not everyone knows how to congratulate their mothers beautifully. To learn to speak tender and kind words, you need to learn from childhood. Especially these days, due to the busyness of parents and children, when there is no time to express their feelings, their tenderness, or feel pride in “our own people.”

Pupils of class 4A of “Secondary School No. 33 of the city of Vladimir”, together with their class teacher Natalya Vladimirovna Chermenskaya, prepared a real holiday for their mothers. Everything that a loving child is capable of awaits them on the last Sunday of November. A's in diaries and diligent behavior. and gifts made with your own hands, syncwines and poems of your own composition. Musical and dance performances for those who are dearest in the world. The children and the class teacher have been preparing for this holiday for a long time, and the result of this big project will be a gift card called “An Angel Named Mom,” which will include all the creative works of fourth-graders.

Our dear mothers, please accept congratulations on the holiday, always be loved and healthy, remember that there is no better calling than yours. Know that your children are grateful to you for everything!

Happy New Year 2013!

Fun as loud as ice.

Smiles as bright as amber,

Health, like frost in January.

May this year be a lucky star

Will enter your family comfort,

Hastily with the old year

Let all the troubles go away!

See photo report about the event here.

Family well-being / congratulations for any occasion

I would like to wish you family well-being. May your own home be a fortress for each of you, may each of you be each other’s support and support in everything, may your children make you happy, and you make them happy!

I love being in this house because in the mornings, along with the first rays of the sun, happiness enters this house, because peace lives in this house, because in the evenings joyful laughter is heard in it, because you, my dears, live in this house Friends ! And I would like to wish you family well-being. And may happiness continue to come to your home, and may love protect you from troubles and adversity, and may all your dreams, born under the roof of this house, always come true!

Let's rock it! family holidays.

FAMILY HOLIDAYS

Anniversaries Parties Gifts Congratulations

We love everything holidays. No one will refuse to add a little bright colors to gray everyday life. Life without holidays and fun parties would be unbearably boring, gray and dull. Both adults and children are looking forward to their loved ones family holidays.

You shouldn’t wait for someone to invite you to a holiday, you need to take it and organize your own, the most unusual and explosive holiday. In order for your family holiday to be the most fun, incendiary, awesome, you need to know simple rules on how to still entertain guests at the holiday.

There are many reasons for a holiday party - yours or your parents', Mother's Day, New Year, March 8 and, of course, the Day of each member of your family. You can also organize a Holiday of surprises and good mood, Grandparents' Day, a Day of meeting with your favorite meadow or tree, a holiday of spring and the first flower, Snowman Day. And I really want even the smallest home family holiday remembered for a long time!

And I’m already tired of boring gatherings when you already know in advance who will say or do what. I just really want something new, interesting, so that someone can organize a stunning party. And why, in fact, someone, why not try it yourself?

Well, why not throw a fiery party for your birthday or surprise one of your loved ones or friends on their Anniversary or Birthday by arranging a surprise party for them? You just need to remember the main thing: home holiday was fun and unforgettable, it needs to be organized correctly, even if there are very few guests.

This, of course, requires some effort: thinking about what and when to offer entertainment to guests, preparing the necessary items for games and competitions, choosing a song, preparing invitations, posters and more, more, more. But all this fuss will pay off in the good mood of everyone present at the holiday and warm memories not only for you, but also for all the guests.

You will find all the ways to make your holiday unforgettable and unique on every page of this site.

If you wish, you can arrange a very interesting family evening for any occasion,

which will be a wonderful holiday for friends and acquaintances invited to it.

And if he turns out to be funny,

then why not make such a holiday a family tradition? It has already been proven by more than one generation that the traditions of family holidays unite all family members, from young to old, which has a very beneficial effect on the “weather in the house.”

If you are tired of banal gatherings and want something

new, original - this site is for you.

AND MAY YOUR HOLIDAY BE THE MOST FUN AND UNIQUE , WHICH WILL NOT ONLY PLEASE AND MAKE YOUR INVITED GUESTS LAUGH, BUT ALSO IT WILL HELP EVERYONE GET CLOSER AND MAKE FRIENDS!!! GOOD LUCK!!!

Family toasts - toasts - toasts and congratulations on birth, wedding, holiday

One ruler was asked:

How do you maintain peace and tranquility in your state?

And he answered:

When I am angry, my people are calm. When they are angry, I am calm. In other words, when I

I get angry, they calm me down, and when they get angry, I calm them down.

The family is a state in miniature.

My toast is to preserve peace and tranquility in our families in this way!

Family congratulations - the best toasts and congratulations :)

One old woman had two sons and two daughters-in-law. The daughters-in-law treated their mother-in-law poorly and moved her to the basement. One day the old woman called her younger daughter-in-law to her and said: “I have one secret. And you keep it, don’t tell anyone. When I die and you reach forty days, you can tell your husband about it. I buried a treasure under our cherry tree. After my death you will dig it up and take it for yourself.” A few days later, the old woman called her eldest daughter-in-law and told her the same thing.

The daughters-in-law began to look after their mother-in-law, put on her shoes, and dress her. They even quarreled among themselves: each insisted that it was her duty to take care of her mother-in-law.

A few years later, my mother-in-law died. When they celebrated forty days, both couples met at night under a cherry tree. They started digging under the tree. They decided that they would divide what they found equally. They began to dig and found a buffalo horn, the internal cavity of which was firmly sealed. When the horn was opened, there was a small knot in it, in it there was another knot, and in the next one - another... and finally in the tenth knot they found a note: “Let this horn stick into the eye of the one who takes bad care of his mother-in-law.”

Let's drink so that even in happy times we don't forget those to whom we owe our lives!

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CHAPTER 6. CONGRATULATIONS-WISHES

HEALTH

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I would like to wish that your health is as strong as a rock, eternal as human faith, and remains unchanged like the sun above your head!

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On this day and at this moment, I would like to wish you, my dears, good health. And although a person is weak by nature, his health must remain strong, so that it is easier for him to withstand the difficulties encountered on his life’s path, so that it is not so difficult for him to experience his life’s adversities!

“HOW TO DECORATE A HOLIDAY”

When decorating a room in connection with a particular professional holiday, place the main emphasis in the festive decor on the symbol of the profession. For example, a model of a car on a motorist’s day, a pen and a piece of paper on a journalist’s day, etc. This item should be placed in a prominent place and decorated with flowers.

In one mountain village lived a small but rich people. Many in the area envied the well-being of the residents of that village. Some, succumbing to envy, raided him. But, despite the devastating raids, the residents quickly restored their way of life, established their economy and began to live in abundance again.

Many years have passed since then, and much has been forgotten about the life history of that people. But the secret of their well-being and prosperity has not been forgotten. And the secret was simple: all the villagers took care of their health. After all, they knew that only a healthy and strong-willed person can overcome all the adversities that fill every person’s life path.

So, I would like to wish that you never forget about the secret of well-being and prosperity, so that your health is strong!

I would like to wish you good health. Because health is the key to your success in life, because success is the source of your joy, because without joy human life would have no value.

I wish you good health! If there is no health, there will be no work; if there is no work, there will be no money; if there is no money, there will be nothing to eat. So, I wish you health because I always want to eat!

"HOLIDAY MENU"

You can serve apple pie with tea on any professional occasion. If you add a little apple juice to the dough, your pie will take on a special taste.

What can you wish for a person who dreams of happiness, love and prosperity in life? Of course, health. Because only a healthy person can have the strength to rejoice at the happiness that has fallen on his head, only a healthy person can have the strength to survive the end of one love and the beginning of another, only a healthy person can have the strength to earn all the money for light.

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If, my friend, every morning you quarrel with your neighbor, if you don’t have enough spoon for dinner, and the neighbor’s cat managed to steal a sandwich, then my wish will come in handy. Because I wish you good luck!

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When the grass doesn't grow on the lawn,
When things aren't going well at work,
When the wallet was stolen on the tram,
And the wife went to her mother,
Friends won't help you
Only SHE will help you!
I wish that she would definitely come to you.
Who is she? Luck is yours!

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So that the money does not run out, so that plans are successfully implemented, so that the sandwich does not fall like butter on the floor, I wish you good luck!

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I want, dear friend, for you to be passionately loved by her alone, your mistress. So that she doesn’t leave you, so that she doesn’t bring trouble to you. Who is that lady? Your savior and guardian is Lady Luck!

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Dear friend! So that your nails don’t break, so that your heels don’t fall off on the road, so that arrows don’t appear on your tights when you’re rushing to a stop, so that no misfortunes and misfortunes happen in your life, I wish you good luck!

“WHAT AND HOW TO GIVE”

If a gift can be given when everyone sits down at the table or while saying congratulatory words, then it is customary to give flowers as soon as the door is opened for you.

Dear friend! So that bricks don’t fall from the roofs on your cool car, so that your license doesn’t lie in the traffic police, so that your cell phone doesn’t get turned off, so that you don’t get fired from a lucrative job, I wish you good luck!

I would like to wish you good luck. For what? So that unforeseen matters do not arise for you, so that your life is richer, so that you encounter joy on your path more often. Once again I wish you good luck!

I want to wish you good luck! Because there is no happiness in life, there is no love and joy in life if there is no luck in it. You won't get a promotion if you didn't get to work on the day the positions were distributed because your mother-in-law was dying. The beauty will marry not you, but your friend, if you didn’t come to the party where you could have met her because there was a fire in your house. You won't laugh heartily at the heroes of a funny comedy if you accidentally lose your movie ticket. So may good luck be with you everywhere and always!

Want to hit the jackpot? Then let her come to you. Let him bestow his attention, let him not leave you in doubt, let him suggest the right decision. May good luck be with you everywhere and always!

Because, dear friend, I cannot be with you twenty-four hours a day, because I cannot assign security to you, because I cannot give answers to all your questions, because I cannot save you from all the failures and mistakes in life , I want to wish you good luck. May she be with you always and everywhere. And then nothing will happen to you during the day, then at night you won’t have a nightmare, then at a difficult moment the correct answer will come to you by itself, then you will perhaps avoid mistakes. Then you will surely become the happiest person in the world!

How I would like on this day to present you in the palms of my hands the whole world, full of joy and love! But I am not a wizard or a magician. Therefore, I wish you good luck from the bottom of my heart, so that one fine morning she will smile at you. And then, perhaps, both happiness and unearthly love will come into your life of their own accord, touch your destiny and your days will be full of happiness!

FAMILY WELFARE

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“HOW TO DECORATE A HOLIDAY”

For a birthday, you can decorate the room in which the celebration is taking place with portraits of the hero of the occasion in various formats. These can be either artistic photographs or funny moments of life captured on film. It is best if the pictures are from different years - from the infancy of the birthday boy to the present day.

I love being in this house because in the mornings, along with the first rays of the sun, happiness enters this house, because peace lives in this house, because in the evenings joyful laughter is heard in it, because you, my dears, live in this house Friends! And I would like to wish you family well-being. And may happiness continue to come to your home, and may love protect you from troubles and adversity, and may all your dreams, born under the roof of this house, always come true!

I would like to wish you family well-being. May the love living in your heart help you find family happiness, may your cheerful disposition help you turn gray everyday life into a kaleidoscope of joy and fun!

I would like joy to always live in your home. Because without joy there will be no happiness, I would like love to always live in your home, because without love you cannot live in this world. I would like everything to be safe in your family. Because a person cannot feel joy if there is grief in his family, because love leaves the house in which an unhappy family lives.

So that the sun shines brighter, so that there is enough joy for all of you, so that luck does not pass you by, so that the wheel of fortune does not crush you, so that Cupid does not fly by, I wish you all family well-being! Only those who live in a happy and strong family will find happiness and joy!

I want to wish you, dear friend, family well-being, because only the one whose home is a fortress, whose wife is a support, whose children are hope is happy!

"HOLIDAY MENU"

When preparing for any of the holidays, try to do something new, more tasty and original. And remember that even the simplest dish can be made especially tasty and beautiful.

I wish you what is called family well-being: joy and happiness, mutual understanding and love!

May joy never leave you, may love always be with you, may your children be happy, may you have all this, and may family well-being not come from time to time, but always live in your home!

I would like, my friends, to wish you family well-being, because I want to continue to see you as happy, because I want to continue to know that you are loved by each other, because I want to continue to see your joyful smiles!

I want to wish you family well-being, because there is nothing in the world as important for a person as his family, because there is nothing on earth that would be both as strong and as fragile as a family, because there is nothing in the world that can make a person the happiest in the world, except his family, in which he is loved and appreciated!

WEALTH

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I would like to wish you great wealth on this day. May the money in your pocket never run out, may your bank accounts grow, may gold adorn you, may people not interfere with your wealth increase!

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I want to wish you that you have enough money for feasts and feasts for friends, for building houses for your wife and children, for Hawaiian resorts, for Swiss watches, for Japanese cars, for domestic diamonds, in a word, for everything at once. I wish you wealth and prosperity!

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Dear friend, I am not at all opposed to the fact that one fine day you become a new Russian or English lord, or a Swiss banker, or an American oil tycoon. In a word, become rich. Live to your heart’s content, work, get rich and don’t forget your friends!

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How I look at your wife - she’s beautiful, how I look at your children - they’re smart, and what about your work - recognition and honor. This means that you, dear friend, are loved and happy, and at the same time quite lucky. So now become a great rich man!

“WHAT AND HOW TO GIVE”

Do not forget that a man should give flowers to the mistress of the house, and a woman should give flowers to the owner. The exception, of course, is if you come alone.

I want, my friends, to wish you all wealth. So that there is a rich breakfast on the table in the morning, so that without getting stuck in traffic jams, you rush along city roads in expensive cars, so that, without straining at work, you receive a decent salary, so that in the evening you are not afraid to relax in a cafe or restaurant, so that your house was full of beautiful things. I want, my friends, to wish you wealth!

So that your mother-in-law does not call you a scoundrel, so that your wife does not call you a loser, so that your children respect you, so that your colleagues do not hesitate to talk to you in public, so that all the joys of this world are available to you, start getting rich now! I wish you to succeed in business and get rich quickly!

Dear friend, may you have as many girlfriends as you wish, may they all praise your generosity, may they all squeal with joy at the sight of your expensive car, may they all faint in your huge apartment. Dear friend, let all this happen when you are rich, otherwise where will you get money for an apartment and a car, for expensive gifts, for luxurious dinners. Be rich and happy!

Dear friend, if you suddenly decide to become interested in feminism, if you suddenly decide to show off your position in society and your independence, you cannot do without HIM. And I want to wish IT to come to you or fall on your head! IT is your wealth.

I would like to wish on this day that you get rid of all your problems: so that you can have your car repaired, so that your wife can finally have enough for a fur coat, so that you can enroll your little one in an elite kindergarten, so that you can pay off your mother-in-law, so that you can visit your home more often dear guests. I would like to wish you wealth to get rid of all life’s troubles!

If you, dear friend, are allergic to cheap soap, if you can only sleep on silk sheets, if you get motion sickness in domestic cars, if the sun of our south does not please you, and only Mallorca pleases you, then you definitely need mountains of wealth. So that you are satisfied and happy, so that you are healthy in both body and spirit, I wish you wealth with all my heart!

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Love always, love everywhere,
To love in thick and thin!

“HOW TO DECORATE A HOLIDAY”

Confetti, “rain”, and garlands can decorate a room not only for the New Year. They will look great for a birthday, or for celebrating March 8th or a professional day.

What should I wish you today: wealth, happiness, beauty?
But it’s better if you are always loved in life!
Take everything you can from life
What is beautiful and light in it,
After all, we cannot multiply life by life,
And you are not destined to live twice!

I wish you joy and laughter
Plus health and success,
Don't face grief and don't be sad,
Smile more often, always be loved!

Each person has his own specific life goals: for some, health plays the main role, for others, wealth, for others, power. I want to wish you that Love comes first in your life!

Love is a huge feeling. Love lives in us as long as we are alive. We wish you that this feeling never fades away in your hearts!

Our dear mother! We love you very much! You are the sunshine in the house. Always be young at heart, beautiful and cheerful! We wish you good health, great love and family well-being!

Dear sister! I wish you always be given love, flowers and smiles!

I wish you to meet great love!

To live is to fall in love. I wish you love as pure as a tear!

“WHAT AND HOW TO GIVE”

When presenting flowers, you should say a few congratulatory, but not hackneyed words, even if after that you will still once again congratulate the hero of the occasion and present him with the main gift.

Love can be different: love for mom or dad, love for sister or brother, love for wife or husband, love for grandmother or grandfather, love for aunt or uncle, love for animals, for nature, for art... I wish that there is enough room in your heart for everyone!

I want to wish you love,
So that the sun shines joyfully and brightly on us,
So that this feeling gets stronger and grows,
And you kept it in your soul!

May your life have a smooth road,
Let troubles and worries pass you by,
Not touched by sadness or bad weather,
I don't want you to love me
Someday they could divide into parts,
I want roses to bloom in your heart -
Isn't this real happiness?!

I want there to be three things in your life: love that no one will respond to, health that needs to be improved, and finances that need to be earned!

LONGEVITY

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Live in the world for a hundred years! For what? To see all the delights of the world, to change more than one apartment, to raise a dozen children, to drink the cup of love to the end. I wish you, dear friend, longevity!

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Dear friend, you are already rich and happy, and your loved one is nearby, so what do you want? And I wish you longevity. May you live in the world for many, many more years and be able to enjoy the successes you have achieved!

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I wish you the longevity that happy people wish in the hope that they will live on this earth for many, many years in happiness and joy and make the people around them happy with their presence!

“HOW TO DECORATE A HOLIDAY”

You can make the room elegant using fragments of New Year's toys. They are crushed, then a layer of Moment glue is applied to the sheet of whatman paper chosen for decoration and the fragments are poured on top. After the glue has dried, you can decorate the walls of the room with such sheets.

On this joyful and wonderful day, I want to wish you longevity. Because a good person must walk on this earth for a long time, because a good person must see all the delights of this world, and visiting the world’s attractions always requires a lot of time!

I want to wish you, dear friend, longevity. For what? So that every day throughout your long life you have the opportunity to look in the mirror and rejoice in your beauty, then so that you have the opportunity to enjoy love and give love, then so that you find a reason for joy every day, then so that you are happy!

I would like to wish my friend longevity. And may each day of his long, long life not pass without meeting good people, without joy and love!

You are greedy for life, my friend! You want to take everything from life, but you are afraid that the days allotted to you for such an unprecedented robbery are too few. So that you are not tormented by nightmares at night, so that you are not afraid to die without taking possession of all the riches of the world, I wish you longevity!

Why are you not cheerful on such a beautiful day, my friend? They have already wished you health, they have not forgotten to remind you to become happy, they have prophesied wealth for you, they have told you great love... Why is your gaze sad, my friend? Maybe you don’t know where to find the time to get everything you wish for? So rejoice, dear friend, I wish you long life, I wish you many long and joyful days!

They say that a person must know everything and go through everything in his life. So, I wish you a long journey in life. I wish you long life. And may your eyes see the delights of this world, and may your soul be open to the joys of this world, and may your heart find love in this world!

I wish you long life. May your days be joyful, may your years be happy, may you be loved and rich, may there be no troubles in your life!

“WHAT AND HOW TO GIVE”

Before giving a gift, be sure to remove the price tag from it. But there is no need to remove company labels. They will tell you better about the price and dignity of the gifted item.

I want you to succeed in everything in this life, and therefore I wish you longevity!

Dear friend, I love you so much, I value you so much that I would like you to live in this white world for countless years!

SUCCESS IN YOUR WORK

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Well, what can I wish for you, dear friend? I came up with: so that you always remain as sweet, so that you are not nervous and irritable, so that your friend does not turn away from you, so that your pocket is never empty, I wish you success in your work!

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Dear friend, today and now I would like to wish you success in your work. So that you can become independent, so that you can earn so much money that you can stop ruining your friend, so that you can make large investments in cosmetic companies by purchasing their products!

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I wish you, dear friend, success in your work so that you finally stop sleeping restlessly, so that you can repair your car, so that you move to a spacious apartment, so that your photo is placed on the covers of the most popular magazines!

“HOW TO DECORATE A HOLIDAY”

To decorate a room and create a certain atmosphere, you can use photo wallpapers, or, if you wish, make them yourself. To do this, you should glue together several sheets of whatman paper and depict your plans on them. After this, attach the sheets to the wallpaper.

I would like to wish you success in your work. Let the bosses be kind, let the subordinates be obedient, let the brains work at 100%, let the bank account grow!

After everything they wished you, there is only one thing left to add: success in your work. Let the working day be short, let the lunch break be long, let the boss never show up at his workplace, let there be an executive assistant, let there be a pretty secretary and let your brains be enough to succeed in your difficult field!

When there is no money in your pocket, when there is no meat for dinner, when your wife looks like Baba Yaga, it’s time to get down to business. And so that things go smoothly, so that gold rings in your pocket, I wish you success in your work!

One day God came up with a business for man, and since then all people have been working in this world. Therefore, I wish you success in your work!

If you want to be rich and happy, work. If you want to be famous, work hard. If you want it to work well, accept my wishes. And I wish you success in your work!

I wish you success in your work! May brilliant ideas be born in your head more often than those of your colleagues, may your bosses look at you more kindly, may the financial department spare no money on the implementation of your projects, may you not be out of your mind with joy!

I wish you success in your work!
May the path to the pinnacle of success be easy,
Let no bad person be found there,
May you be rewarded as you deserve,
Let your wife be proud of you!

“WHAT AND HOW TO GIVE”

When giving a gift, do not try to quietly push it into the hands of the person for whom it is intended.

So that your mother-in-law doesn’t scream, so that your wife respects you, so that your children are happy with the gifts, I wish you success in your work. Be persistent and patient, catch your luck and bring a bonus to the house more often.

I wish you success in your work. Let your colleagues respect you, let your bosses notice you, let your accountants give you bonuses more often. Live and grow rich to the delight of yourself and your beloved wife!

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Today is such a beautiful day! On days like this, you want everything to be fine, for the sun to shine brightly overhead, for the grass under your feet to be emerald green, for the birds to chirp happily. On days like this, you want happiness! So today I wish you happiness!

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Why don't people fly like birds? Really, why? After all, then you could fly in the same sky with the bird of happiness and catch it! I wish that the bird of happiness flies into your home, and that you manage to keep it!

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Well, what can you wish for a person who has everything? The main thing is that he has health, but he can easily buy everything else. So what can you wish for him? Let's wish him happiness. And let happiness, as in the song, come to his house every morning!

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I would like to wish that joyful voices do not cease in your house, I would like to wish that your boss does not get tired of praising your professional qualities, I would like to wish that love does not leave you. I would like...

I would like to wish you a lot, but how to find the right words? I think I know! I wish you happiness! If a person is happy, it means he has everything he dreamed of.

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Dear friend! I want to wish you happiness. What does happiness mean to a woman? Women's happiness - if only a sweetheart were nearby. So, I would like to wish you never to part with your darling!

“HOW TO DECORATE A HOLIDAY”

When decorating the room, make sure that these delights of design art do not interfere with the celebration. Therefore, never place fragile or too bulky things in the middle of the room. You should not place such things on the route of guests.

Dear friend! Today I would like to wish you happiness. May there be no money in your pocket, may there be no problems in your service, may your friend not leave for a friend. Be happy, dear!

“When you don’t know what to wish for, wish for happiness,” a wise man once said. So, today I decided to listen to his words. I wish you happiness, and you, dear friend, wish yourself what will make you happy!

Happiness is when you are understood. Therefore, I would like to wish you that your words reach the very hearts of people, so that on your path you do not meet people who are stupid and weak of hearing!

I want to wish you happiness. Become happy, and then you will find the strength to smile at your reflection in the mirror on a gloomy cloudy morning, and then you will find warm words in your heart for a loved one, and then you will finally know how to make people happy. Become happy!

Ladies and gentlemen! Being in such a brilliant company, it would be an unforgivable mistake not to wish the hero of the occasion something extraordinary. Therefore, I want to wish for something that can outshine the shine of the sun during the day, and something that could illuminate the path on a dark night, I want to wish for something that is as colorful and amazing as the rainbow that appears after a terrible thunderstorm, I want to wish for that , what both adults and children dream about. I want to wish you happiness!

Be happy and loved!
Always be protected by fate!
May you have no hard days!
May you have no sleepless nights!
Always be happy and loved!

It is known that any marriage union in the process of development experiences not only happy periods, but also stages of crises. There is no family that does not face various problems or misunderstandings in specific situations, and this is not an exception to the rule: rather, a pattern. It is simply important to understand that in order to achieve family well-being, it is necessary to fight such crises through joint efforts, as well as to build harmonious relationships in a marriage. In this article we will look at the main factors and conditions that promote mutual understanding in a married couple and strengthen a marriage.

Factors of family well-being

The first condition for family well-being, of course, is the love and affection of the spouses. And hardly anyone will deny the importance of such feelings in this matter. At the same time, it should be noted that a marriage based on love alone cannot last for a long time. After all, the mutual passion and romantic mood that characterizes the initial period of a relationship does not last as long as we would like.

This is explained by the force of habit, since sooner or later a person gets used to his partner and no longer strives to win his love with the same force. It is a mistake to believe that at this stage feelings fade away and harsh life begins. After all, in order to achieve family well-being, it is necessary to approach such a turn of events with understanding and confidence that it will not interfere with real feelings.

If spouses expect that mutual passion at the beginning of a relationship will be enough for them to live a happy life together for many years, they will very soon doubt their beliefs. After all, a marriage is not only romantic walks in the evenings and beautiful declarations of love: a family also involves a common life, and, consequently, worries and problems. Not everyone is ready for such a test, which is why many couples get divorced without living together for several years.

Experts have identified the main factors of family well-being that should be taken into account by everyone who is planning to start a life together with a loved one:

Focus on spouse;
Sympathy and trust;
Communication without conflicts;
Understanding;
Sexual satisfaction;
Material well-being.

Focus on the spouse is the most important condition for family well-being, since it serves as the basis for mutual understanding. It involves attentive attention to the interests, preferences, and habits of a loved one. Ideally, spouses should take their actions only taking into account each other's desires and needs.

Sympathy and trust are also necessary factors for family well-being, because if you don’t feel sympathy for the person you are going to live with, the marriage is doomed to failure. And when there is no trust in a relationship, love gradually fades away, as its place is taken by eternal suspicions, jealousy and discontent.

Normal communication without constant quarrels and conflicts should be present in every good family. People need to share their emotions, impressions and experiences with loved ones, so you need to create an atmosphere at home that encourages spouses to have mutual frankness and trusting relationships.

Mutual understanding is one of the most important conditions for family well-being. In order to achieve it, the spouses will need a lot of time and trials. But the key point here is condescension and tolerance towards each other, which are excellent qualities for creating a strong family.

Sexual satisfaction also very often comes with years of marriage, since partners do not immediately recognize each other’s preferences: this takes time and desire. When people are connected by mutual strong feelings, almost all problems of a sexual nature are solvable. This is due to the strong desire of both to please their spouse.

An important factor in family well-being is also the financial security of the family. It's no secret that financial difficulties, which are chronic, very quickly affect the relationship of a married couple. Everyday problems that cannot be solved, debts and nervous stress caused by all this prevent people from enjoying their feelings and living in harmony. After all, the lion's share of family conflicts is related to the topic of money.

Symbols of family well-being

Recently, the teaching of Feng Shui has become widespread, with the help of which many people invite material security, harmony in relationships and love into their home. To do this, you just need to know what the main symbols of family well-being exist in this teaching:

Aquarium;
Turtle;
Dragon;
Phoenix.

The aquarium is one of the main symbols of family well-being in material terms. It is believed that it attracts money to the house, so it is best to place goldfish in it and, of course, do not forget to feed them and clean the aquarium on time.

The turtle is also a symbol of material wealth and health, so it is advisable to get a live aquatic turtle that will live in the aquarium: this combination should provide a double effect.

The dragon is a symbol of family well-being, success in business and career growth. In addition, experts believe that it gives the inhabitants of the house a special energy that develops qualities such as determination and endurance.

The phoenix acts as a complement to the dragon, since in Chinese mythology they are considered spouses. It provides the family with fame, success and strong relationships. In addition, if it is placed in the southern part of the house, then such a talisman will protect family members from all kinds of negative influences from the outside.

At the same time, it should be remembered that the best symbols of family well-being are, first of all, love and mutual understanding in a marriage.

Psychologists call a full-fledged family in which both father and mother are present. Of course, many single mothers also do an excellent job raising children, and there are also single fathers who are not inferior to them. Yet, if one of the parents is missing, then the family is not considered complete or complete. Even if the house is kept perfectly clean and children are raised with love, psychologists still believe that for the most successful personality development, it is better for a child to have both parents.

However, a family of one parent is always better for a child than a family of two who constantly quarrel, or when one of the parents drinks. There are other factors of well-being, much more important, that do not depend on the size of the family.

The basis of a prosperous family is love

Only those people who live in peace and harmony, love and respect each other can be called prosperous. Parents pay attention not only to each other’s opinions, but also to what the child tells them. In a prosperous family there is no such thing as tyranny of older family members towards children.

For a family to be prosperous, spouses must love and respect each other, be able to listen and listen. Children in such a family trust their parents, they tell them about their problems, study well and achieve success in life, and do not develop complexes, trying to outdo the most dissolute peers in bad habits.

Well-being should also be material

Despite the fact that material support is not the main thing, it is still very important. If a child grows up in a family where parents do not have enough money for the most basic goods, he receives complexes for the rest of his life. Poor nutrition affects health, and it may turn out that the child will have to deal with the consequences throughout his life. The old, shabby clothes he has to wear often lead to ridicule from his peers, which greatly affects self-esteem and slows down the process of children's integration into society.

Rich parents who constantly quarrel themselves and take it out on their child, do not pay attention to him, and do not make their family prosperous. Harmony is a very important factor.

Prosperous family

To summarize, a prosperous family can be called one in which harmony, love and mutual understanding reign, and all family members show respect towards each other. They spend enough time together, and the elders pay enough attention to the younger ones.

Conditions for creating a sustainable family union

The problem of family well-being occupies a central place in the consideration of marital relations. The main conditions for the well-being of a family in our minds are: mutual understanding between spouses, a separate apartment, material well-being, children in the family and an interesting, well-paid job for the spouses. True, the order of values for men and women is somewhat different. Practical men put a separate apartment and material well-being in first and second place, after which they put mutual understanding between spouses, children and interesting work. Women gave priority to mutual understanding, children, and then a separate apartment, material well-being and interesting work.

V. Matthews and K. Mikhanovich, as a result of studying a very wide range of realities of family life, discovered the ten most important differences between happy and unhappy family unions. It turned out that in unhappy families the spouses:

· Do not think the same way on many issues and problems.

· Poorly understand the feelings of others.

· Saying words that irritate another.

· Often feel unloved.

· They do not pay attention to others.

· Feel dissatisfied with the need for trust.

· They feel the need for a person they can trust.

· Rarely compliment each other.

· Are often forced to yield to the opinions of others.

· They want more love.

There are two reasons for dissatisfaction with marital relationships: myths about the ideal marriage and the discrepancy between these myths and the realities of life. The following beliefs are widely held among American couples:

· In a happy marriage, romantic love lasts forever.

· My partner must understand what I want and need without words.

· Good sex should be spontaneous and evoke a storm of emotions.

· If my partner (partner) is suitable for me, then this will help me cope with my feelings of inferiority.

· My partner will always be on my side in any dispute or conflict.

· If our sex life does not satisfy us, it proves that there is no strong love in the relationship.

· In a good marriage, spouses never argue with each other.

· Marriage will greatly improve my life without any cost, expense or hardship on my part.

As a result of incorrect thinking based on these myths, one of the spouses puts forward categorical demands on the other. Anxiety occurs due to the following thoughts:

· He/she should not act this way, and it is terrible if he/she continues to act in the same spirit,

· I won't be able to stand it if the situation doesn't change.

· He is bad because he refuses to change. Usually such thinking is interpreted as an erroneous belief. Unfortunately, such thinking only irritates the partner, who, most likely, will continue to do the same in the future.

A rationally thinking person recognizes the validity of his expectations and wishes in relation to his partner. But you should not elevate your desires to the rank of demands, and turn your expectations into orders. Having made unlawful demands on a partner, a person will later begin to experience irrational anger. When both partners angrily accuse each other of all sorts of sins, the anxiety only intensifies and the vicious circle closes.

In happy marriages, spouses intentionally develop a philosophy of family relationships that allows them to peacefully coexist with their partner, appreciate him, and at the same time express themselves and their own needs for personal growth.

From the point of view of American psychologists, a fairly limited set of purely psychological conditions is necessary for family happiness. This:

· normal conflict-free communication;

· trust and empathy (effective sympathy for another);

understanding each other;

· normal intimate life;

· having a home (where you can take a break from the difficulties of life);

From these studies it is possible to formulate certain conditions for family happiness: the desire to eliminate possible contradictions, the ability to look at events and circumstances from the perspective of another, a high culture of communication, constant consideration of the views and opinions of another, tireless demonstration of love, genuine trust in each other, a high degree of mutual understanding, mutual admiration and mutual compliance.

The next important component of the quality of a marriage is its stability. Assessing the stability and strength of a marriage is one of the most important characteristics of a family’s lifestyle. V.A. Sysenko for the first time separates the concepts of “stability of marriage” and “stability of marriage.”

He views the stability of a marriage as “the stability of the system of interaction between spouses, the efficiency and effectiveness of their joint activities aimed at achieving both mutual and individual goals of the spouses.

A number of works were devoted to the problems of a young family. They highlight the factors of instability of a young urban family: the short duration of the premarital acquaintance of the spouses, the early (up to 21 years) age of marriage, a negative attitude towards the spouse, the unsuccessful marriage of the parents of one or both spouses, premarital pregnancy, different opinions of the spouses on issues of everyday life and leisure, and etc.

Factors of family well-being

Factors of family well-being are divided into the following poles: external-internal, objective-subjective.

External objective factors usually include the stability of the social system in which the family is included (the prerogative of the state), and the material conditions of its life.

Subjective external factors include factors of social control: legal and cultural norms, national and cultural traditions, expectations and requirements of the significant environment.

For a modern family, subjective internal sources of stability are of predominant importance: interpersonal feelings of family members (love, responsibility, duty and respect).

Let's consider love as a factor in family well-being.

Love and family well-being

The theme of love worries humanity throughout its history. Love was both evil and good; both happiness and suffering; both sorrow and joy. But it has never been something indifferent and unnecessary for people.

Research by scientists has shown the non-identity of the love and marital orientation of young people. So, according to V.T. Lisovsky, the number of priority life plans of young people in 72.9 percent of answers included “meeting a loved one” and only 38.9 percent - “starting a family”; boys and girls do not see a future life partner in every partner, it was confirmed and in the studies of S.I. Hunger. He discovered that among the possible motives for intimate premarital relationships, “love” motivation clearly prevails over “marriage”: for both men and women, mutual love came first, and a pleasant pastime came second. On the third level for women is an orientation towards marriage, for men - the desire to receive pleasure, and only then is an orientation towards marriage.

As you know, there can be love without marriage, and marriage without love. There is neither complete coincidence nor complete difference between marriage and love, and for a long period of history they existed separately. In a large number of cases, love turns out to be a factor preventing the preservation of a family union. There are several reasons:

· In the impatience of love, we are not looking for a spouse, but for a loved one.

· Under the romantic cover of love, we very often forget about family everyday life and everyday family affairs.

· Fetishization of love: in a passionate search for love, we mistake for love something that does not correspond to it at all.

Laws of compatibility

Compatibility is one of the most complex phenomena of socio-psychological science in general and family psychology in particular. Compatibility forms a hierarchy of levels, at the bottom of which there is psychophysiological compatibility of temperaments and consistency of sensorimotor acts. The next level forms the consistency of functional-role expectations. The highest level of group compatibility includes value-orientation unity. It is an indicator of group cohesion, reflecting the level or degree of coincidence of opinions, assessments, attitudes and positions of group members in relation to any objects. The family is a small group, and the laws of compatibility apply to it.

A husband and wife may expect very different things and imagine their family life differently. At the same time, the more these ideas do not coincide, the less stable the family is, the more situations that are dangerous for it arise in it. The system of our marriage and family ideas is very complex and the reasons for discrepancies arise very often. There are two main reasons:

1. Our ideas about marriage and family become more and more refined and saturated with details, since the family now corresponds less and less to the centuries-old pattern of role functioning. The growth of material well-being allows us to look for more and more diverse models of family relationships.

2. The conflict of ideas of young spouses can become aggravated and aggravated due to very poor knowledge of each other’s ideas. Firstly, because during the period of premarital courtship they with enviable consistency prefer to discuss any topics except family relationships. Secondly, with a very short premarital acquaintance, finding out each other’s ideas is very problematic.

Functional-role conflicts in family compatibility can manifest themselves in three areas of family relationships.

The first area is leisure, free time of the spouses. The reason for the acuity of relationships in this area of family life is quite clear: the more we expect from our free time, the less our ideas about how it should be spent coincide.

The second area is economic relations in the family. Outdated stereotypes of managing family affairs constantly become a “bone of discord” between spouses.

Third sphere- intimate relationships. The same sex that gave rise to the myth of sexual harmony as the most important condition for a happy marriage.

Psychologists studying the laws of compatibility have come to the conclusion that the individual psychological and personal characteristics of spouses do not entirely determine the stability and compatibility of the spouses. What still prevails here are ideas about the goals of the marriage union. As for the psychological characteristics of marriage partners, the most important are those traits that determine the partners’ ability to perceive and understand other people, predict their behavior, and treat them attentively and favorably. It is worth noting that spouses always have real opportunities to increase the level of mutual compatibility through self-education, bringing together marriage and family ideas, and a high culture of relationships.